Is This Me?

Proverbs 21:9, 19

It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, 

than with a brawling woman in a wide house.

It is better to dwell in the wilderness, 

than with a contentious and an angry woman.

A little warning to young man looking for his bride,

a reminder to the unmarried and married woman alike ...

avoid being characterized by brawling, contention, and anger.

So then I ask myself,

Am I this woman to be avoided?

Do I like to fight?

Do I nag?

Do I need to "win" in every situation?

Of course,

I want to deny it,

but I must look even closer.

I do not want to drive my husband to the "roof" or the "wilderness."