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Wednesday, February 13, 2013

A Note to Mothers

Pr 10:1, 5, 26
The proverbs of Solomon. A wise son maketh a glad father: 
but a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.
He that gathereth in summer is a wise son: 
but he that sleepeth in harvest is a son that causeth shame.
As vinegar to the teeth, and as smoke to the eyes, 
so is the sluggard to them that send him.

While I am not a mother, yet, 
I should be prepared should the day arrive.
Here in Proverbs 10, Solomon reminds mothers of the heartache 
that comes with raising a foolish child.
There is much that can be done to avoid this fate.
He mentions one way to avoid this sadness in verses 5 and 26.
Do not raise a lazy child!
Teach your child to work!
Teach your child to be diligent!

Every child can be taught to accept and fulfil responsibilities.
Can they pick up their own toys?
Can they put spoons or forks on the table? in the right place?
Can they wield a whisk broom to clean crumbs from under the table?

Of course there are more options as a child ages,
but all children can and should learn to work.
Then ... as my college professors said ...
"Inspect what you expect."
Make sure that responsibilities and tasks are completed joyfully
and correct laziness and other wrong attitudes promptly.

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Holiness

Psalm 93:5 
Thy testimonies are very sure: 
holiness becometh thine house, O LORD, for ever.

Holiness ...
pure, without sin, clean

A reminder to keep myself pure,
it is part of God's nature and becoming to Him.

Monday, February 11, 2013

This and That

Hubby took me to a V-Day concert on Saturday night.
I got to wear my homemade handmade formal again.
It was a last minute decision, so there was no time for dinner -
so afterwards we went to Chick-fil-A in our fancy duds.

This was a picture from a few years ago -
I wore the short-sleeved top this year.
We celebrated 11 years yesterday.
We were introduced to one another 11 years ago.
That means this coming Sunday is donut day -
the anniverary of our first date!!!
Of course, we are looking forward to that.


Just finished packaging some V-day treats for my nieces and nephews.
It is a yearly tradition for my favorite holiday.
I was glad for the stamps that my Mother-in-law just sent.
They were sent because she could not send us a fruit cake -
(I guess that is a good perk of being gluten free)


The house is in a bit of disarray.
Hubby found wet carpet in the closet this morning - 
The hot water tank sprang a leak.
I will be doing my cleaning around fans, buckets, heaters and the contents of my emptied closet.

Looking forward to tomorrow.
Hubby has a taken a day off - kind of a catch up day.
Hopefully it is not spent repairing tanks and floors :(
We have dinner planned with friends.


Friday, February 8, 2013

Well Founded Dependence


"Every thing that a man leans upon but God, will be a dart
that will certainly pierce his heart through and through.
He who leans only upon Christ,
lives the highest, choicest, safest, and sweetest life."

THOMAS BROOKS

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Real Dirt

I told you that I would be in the garden yesterday.
I was for about 2 hours.
What a difference from 4 years ago!
After 4 years of leaves, compost, and regular working - 
it is looking like real soil rather than the native red clay.
The soil is brown and soft and ...
I saw a lot of fat worms living and working there.
 
I am thankful to be back in the garden -
well, not today, it is raining.
I am thankful for the improvement in the garden soil.
I am thankful for the gardening season which begins here ... next week!

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

My Favorite Place

Next to being side by side with my hubby,
my favorite place is the garden.
I am now a week away from pea planting day.
It is supposed to be 64* today.

Guess where I will be?

I will be in the garden - 
turning soil,
adding compost,
just enjoying the dirt.

Did you know that the bacteria in dirt is healthy.
Supposedly it boosts one's mood and immunity.
I just love it!

Side by Side Comparison

Proverbs 9:13
 A foolish woman is clamorous: 
she is simple, and knoweth nothing.

Clamorous and simple.
More traits to avoid.
When I originally read this verse, I saw "clamorous" and thought "LOUD".
Indeed the foolish, strange woman was described as loud in chapter 8.
As I grabbed my dictionary, I noticed that there was more to it.
Clamorous can be confusion, and causing confusion.
This woman brings or breeds confusion - 
perhaps she thrives on it.
I am sure that you can think of some people like this,
perhaps they even admit to it,
perhaps it even describes you.
Obviously, God does not value this trait.
My life should be marked by order and peace brought about 
by the proper focus (on God and His Word) and disciplined planning.
Not always easy, but necessary.

Simple.
This woman has little to offer but death and destruction. (see the last verse of chapter 9)
She knows nothing.
Perhaps she is only taken with clothes and her appearance,
but it may be another area.
A Biblical woman, a Biblical wife will seek to have knowledge. 
It may not be book knowledge, or involve advanced schooling,
but she seeks to know things and to improve her mind.
Why?
to strengthen and challenge her husband in his personal growth,
to teach her children, 
to minister in many situations and to many different people,
to benefit her local church,
to teach the younger women (Titus 2), 
to remain profitably busy (not idle).

Avoiding confusion and lack of knowledge - 
worthy goals for today.



Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Flourishing


Psalm 92:13-14 
Those that be planted in the house of the LORD 
shall flourish in the courts of our God.
 They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; 
they shall be fat and flourishing;

I have been meditating on this Psalm for two weeks now.
Immediately, this verse jumped out at me.
It has some significance because verse 13 was cross-stitched for us for our wedding - 
a reminder to rely on God daily.
Combined with verse 14, it sent me to thinking about my future years.
Will I sit wilted and shriveled?
Will I waste my final days?
Will my service dwindle?
I would much rather continue to grow, to flourish.
The key is the root system.
Am I rooted in Christ now and drawing strength from Him?

The meditation continued as our neighbor lost his 3 month battle with cancer on Friday.
A wife and seven children left.
Will they grieve?  Of course.
Will they miss him?  No doubt.
Can they still flourish?
Indeed - if they continue to draw their strenght from Christ.


Monday, February 4, 2013

Reading Labels

We read labels daily, but sometimes miss the "big" picture.
We look at ingredients, the "gluten free" tag, the calories.

Yesterday, hubby volunteered to grill our lunch despite the biting wind.
I took out the hamburger meat and was just about to make them like I always do
(just meat sprinkled with onion powder and Worcestershire sauce),
when I noticed a recipe on the back of a taco seasoning packet.

It called to add one packet of seasoning to 1 1/2 pounds of meat ...
add 1/2 c crushed tortilla chips ...
VOILA!

Those burgers were GOOD!
I used a little of the seasoning to sprinkle on our homemade oven baked fries.

Then served with sweet pepper slices, tomato slices, and mini carrots.




Friday, February 1, 2013

Victory through Dependence

"In war, when a commander
becomes so bereft of reason and perspective
that he fails to understand the dependence of arms
on Divine guidance,
he no longer deserves victory."
 
General Douglas MacArthur