Success

 Proverbs 31:27

She looketh well to the ways of her household, 

and eateth not the bread of idleness.

It is a goal to live out this verse in my home.

I desire to serve my household well.

Today felt like a success in meeting this goal.

Unfortunately, it is not always the case.

The past two months have been full of distractions - 

some good, and some that should have been ignored.

Distractions are not always great in accomplishing goals.

With Thanksgiving and Christmas services behind us,

with gifts and cards sent out,

with a few weeks when fatigue just hit strong in the rearview mirror,

I feel like I can focus again.

Of course, there will still be distractions - 

but I rejoice in the victorious days.

Today, another room got steam-cleaned carpets.

Today, the garage was tidied after digging out Christmas decorations and decorating both at home and church.

Today, shipping boxes got broken down and put in the recycle bin.

Today, I closet got cleaned and straightened.

Today, the workout was finished in time to clean up before hubby arrived home.

It is easy to get discouraged.

You may not always reach your goals,

but rejoice in the little things -

rejoice in the successes.

I know I am today.

We have another "snow day" from church tonight.

So thankful for the archives of other churches that will provide spiritual food tonight.

Christmas Game of the Year

 If you have been reading for any amount of time,

you know that I usually send a Christmas game to my brothers' families.

They have gone on Photo Scavenger hunts,

played scattegories,

played rock - paper - scissors to choose progressive dinner locations,

they have also had Yankee swap-type activities.

This year, I found a new game idea.

It was the Saran Wrap game.

Basically, I purchased many little treats

and wrapped them into a large Saran Wrap ball.

And then the families took turns unwrapping the treats along with activity cards.

The game is mostly what you make of it,

and from what I saw ... they definitely enhanced the fun of it!

I received good feedback and would definitely put together something like this if I was planning a Sunday School or youth Christmas party ... or an anytime party actually.

In the end, the families were to divide the treats fairly evenly

and I will mail out special happy mail in the new year to the 3 "winners."

Sure am hoping that the internet continues to spark the creativity each year!

SNOW!

The snow arrived as predicted.

After we went to bed on Christmas day, the snow began.

By the time we woke up on Sunday, the snow was 4-6 inches.

In this part of Oregon, we are in another area that just "shuts down" when the snow comes.

There are very few plows or sand trucks.

The department of transportation does 3 main roads in town,

and some crew locally sands only major intersections.

So we had a snow day on Sunday!

It was a welcome recuperation day.

Sunday morning at dawn

Hubby and I enjoyed a longer Bible study time,

we enjoyed 2 long walks in the snow,

and listened to sermons from our perspective church online.

We also tried the chowder that did not get made on Christmas day (not a hit)

as well as a ham dinner that evening (a definite hit).

We are supposed to get another 1-3 inches overnight tonight.

Hubby had little to do at work, so he is taking tomorrow off.

I see more walks in my future and probably a garage workout.

And now the menu for the week:

Sunday:  Salmon Chowder and Ham dinner

Monday:  Zesty Lime Chicken Bowl (homemade spin on Chipotle chicken bowl)

Tuesday:  Tuscan Skillet

Wednesday:  Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday:  Veggie Burger

Friday:  Salad and French Fries

Merry Christmas!

 Merry Christmas to you!

We enjoyed our service and fellowship last night.

There is a peace in the busy season in sitting surrounded by candlelight and focusing on the Light of the World.

We have cleaned up the mess at church this morning.

We made an atypical Christmas dinner.

It was grilled cheese with Mexican chicken and cabbage thrown on top.

We plan to visit 2-3 homes this afternoon.

Snow is supposed to hit the Willamette Valley-

Quite the rarity ... But a little exciting after two winters with little to no accumulation.

We hope you have a great day of celebration!

Names Have Meaning

For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: 

and the government shall be upon his shoulder: 

and his name shall be called 

Wonderful, 

Counsellor, 

The mighty God, 

The everlasting Father, 

The Prince of Peace. 

The children will be singing the words of this verse in the Christmas Eve Service tonight.

I have thought much as I taught the song of how the different names of Christ are a blessing at different times in my life.

This year, I have seen all of the names and traits so clearly.

Wonderful - a mystery inspiring awe - God worked to have us in Oregon at just the right time.

Counsellor - Only God can direct and give the best guidance as we navigate another move

and has given direction in helping mom finish her race here on earth.

Mighty God - Wow - the number of miracles that we have seen this year -

often in the timing of events and circumstances

but also in using us in others lives or using others in our life.

Everlasting Father - this year we are far from ALL family, but God is still there (and always will be)

The Prince of Peace - This "Type A - Planner" wants the future all neatly wrapped in a bow,

but where is the faith in that - 

and in the "wait" - He gives peace

You may be enjoying a loud, full Christmas season,

or you may be having a quiet season,

but regardless the same Christ is the reason for the celebrations.

As you celebrate, remember His life, His sacrifice, and His gifts.

And once again, if you are awake at 7 pm PST,

you are welcome to try to join us via live stream.

It didn't work last year, but if you are up and about,

it just might be worth a try,

Still A No Go

 Well, you are quite curious, aren't you?

How was the TOFU?

Well, I did try...

and hubby gratefully ate a good serving ...

but it was not good.

The good news was that a Chipotle restaurant had opened in our town just 2 days before :)

And it was a good opportunity to visit for the first time

(though the first few days of a restaurant opening are usually a zoo).

The tofu was a nice idea, but there is a texture thing going on.

I thought that by baking the tofu, it would be more crispy,

but alas, it was not.

So I will at least take a month off before trying that ingredient again.

This week ...

Saturday:  Grilled Chicken Sandwich

Sunday:  Potluck at church ...  Cranberry Meatballs, Scalloped Potatoes, Cranberry Waldorf Salad

Monday:  Salmon (a Christmas gift), sesame lime cabbage salad, fried potatoes

Tuesday:  Red Lentil Soup

Wednesday:  Sweet Potato Black Bean Enchiladas

Thursday:  Chicken Tacos

Friday:  Breakfast for Dinner (Church Christmas Eve Service)

Saturday:  Smoked Salmon Chowder

Short Days

 Is anyone else feeling the effects of the shorter daylight hours?

With the shorter days and the grey skies, I surely am!

It was a cold damp weekend and today there was even some "slush" in the air.

I looked ahead and right now they are even predicting "slush" on Christmas day.

I don't know if that adds to the festivity or is just depressing 😀

With the presents all purchased and shipped,

I have a few cards to finish up tomorrow 

and then it is time to focus on Christmas Eve.

We get very excited about doing some special things for our church friends

and making a night that celebrated the true meaning of Christmas

and allows folks to just take a breath.

The children's choir is ready for a few special pieces,

the primary church pianist may be well enough to "duet" with me,

and there may be a few student piano pieces.

And now for the week's menu.

I have 4 new recipes this week.

That is a little unusual, but I guess I was feeling a little tired of the same old same old.

We tried 2 on Saturday - 

one was a hit and one was a miss.

I attribute the "miss" to the fact that you have to develop a taste for nutritional yeast.

I may come back to it someday and may try to add a little more spices to complement the odd flavor.

So, if you are interested in following the adventure ...

Here is this week's menu:

Saturday:  Brown Rice Casserole (not a hit)

Jackfruit, Chickpea, Root Vegetable Soup (a surprising hit)

(would also be good without jackfruit)

Sunday:  Leftover Soup

Monday:  Singapore Noodles and Egg Rolls (freezer section)

Tuesday:  Roasted Red Pepper Quinoa and Lentil Soup

Wednesday:  Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday:  Sticky Orange Sesame Tofu

Friday:  Salad and Fries

As for the tofu - well that is a definite experiment.

I have used it in smoothies, but not as a main dish.

I have typically avoided it and will probably only try it about once a month.

Tofu is a high source of plant protein,

but it also can affect hormones,

so I am taking it easy on this one.

$2000

 The nighttime blogging has not been very effective,

so I will try a morning edition.

Hubby is off to work,

lunch made,

breakfast dishes washed,

a load of wash is started,

a batch of chocolate beet muffins is in the oven,

and I am in front of my computer with a coconut chai latte.

Does that sound like a good start to the day?

God is all we need, all the time.

I know that and truly try to practice that.

But self-reliance and pride often cause me to develop a "just in case God fails me" plan.

Now, don't act like you have never done that as well.

There are seasons when I can't even develop a plan B, when I can't rely on anyone or anything else.

I feel like every time we move, we are reminded that He is all we need.

We are reminded that vain is the help of man.

We are reminded that our strength is not in horses or chariots.

There is much to be thankful for this week.

First, if you have been praying about the cost of a move ...

Yesterday, the cost went down $2000 on all trucks!

(And those prices didn't go down 30 minutes north of us).

God is definitely answering specific prayers.

While we still don't have enough specifics to reserve it,

that is encouraging!

And we wanted to thank you for praying specifically for that.

You can keep praying if you'd like.😀

On Monday, when hubby came home a little early from work, 

he reached out to 3 companies that might provide possible employment.

And ... he received 3 positive responses.

I can't give specifics, 

but one company even brought up a different line of work which had hubby VERY excited.

While that was all very encouraging,

one company reached out to his current employer ...

... just a tad early (like 4 months!)

His current employer is known to cut people loose as soon as notice is given.

And we prayed ...

and yesterday, hubby was assured that he had a job as long as he needed it.

God took a burden off that we took on unnecessarily.

Two of the job locations got us looking at housing in a slightly different area

which was putting rents and/or purchase prices more in line with what we were comfortable with.

That was another help in continuing on the path that God had put us on.

And what path is that ...

why a church, of course.

A church that would put us within a reasonable drive of family.

We have tried to focus our decision this time on a church home.

There are so many churches in this country,

so we went on recommendations and what we could listen to online.

We trust we have found it and are praying that we are a fit for each other.

And it is about 4 hours from the nearest family - not too bad, I would say!

End of Day

 It is just about time to wrap it up for the day.

In typical Monday fashion, the house got a thorough cleaning.

I worked in "Zone 3" today.

That included focusing on the guest room and 3 bathrooms.

Primarily I worked on wiping down walls,

washing shower curtains,

and using a little extra baking soda on the shower walls.

I still need to go through the bathroom cabinets, but that will wait for tomorrow.

Hubby had only a half-day today.

We are both fighting a little something.

I feel like our immune systems are working well,

we have not succumbed to it,

but whatever is attacking is wearing us down a little.

I just took a batch of peanut butter white bean cupcakes out of the oven

and then returned supper to the oven so it would be a little softer for leftovers.

Yes, we ate some slightly crispy scalloped potatoes because we were ready to eat and it wasn't.

Tomorrow is a change of pace for both of us.

Hubby has jury duty.

I was excused from mine earlier this fall,

but he at least has some time tomorrow.

I have a zoom interview for a survey company.

These are my favorite because the remuneration is the best.

This one is on TISSUES!

And now for the Week Menu

Sunday:  Biscuits and Cauliflower Sausage Gravy

Monday: Scalloped Potatoes and Ham

Tuesday: White Bean and Potato Soup

Wednesday:  Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday: Spanish Rice and Refried Beans Skillet Burritos

Friday:  Salad and French Fries

After a slight reprieve from the gray skies last week,

we are definitely back into it today - just cold and rainy.

Now it is time to curl up with a tea and a good book!

Stressors

 You can tell that this week did not yield much writing.

I think it is the stress of an upcoming move.

There are so many intricate parts,

there are so many questions,

there are so many uncertainties.

There is a peace in the midst of the storm.

We know that God will provide.

We know that God already knows the path He has for us,

but sometimes, my mind and emotions run ahead of what I know to be true.

I spent a lot of time walking this week.

Walking is one of the ways I think

and also a form of stress relief.

$10,000!

Remember that number.

There was a question of if I even owned that much stuff.

Maybe it would be better to just leave everything in Oregon!

But, we had to think of the mechanic's tools that make up hubby's livelihood.

And there are some things that are irreplaceable - like handmade furniture.

We did need a truck, but could we shrink that truck?

This week, we decided that we would cut the Penske bill nearly in half by opting for the 16' truck.

We know it is the right decision,

but there is stress in that too.

It is hard to leave stuff behind,

to sell belongings that you enjoy,

to take a loss in the sale.

We moved from WA to NC nearly 20 years ago in a 16' truck.

Can we do it again?

We decided that it would be wise to sell off all the large furniture - 

couch, recliner, two beds, dining furniture, tray tables, washer, dryer, fridge.

I added up their new value and it was $4000 - less than the amount that we will save on the smaller truck.

And I hope that we can at least get 1/2 of their value out of them in the sale.

Then I can start fresh in a new location.

Not only do we save money on the rental,

but the smaller truck is more comfortable to ride in (bucket seats rather than a bench)

The smaller truck is easier to get in and out of places along the way allowing for more convenient stopping.

The smaller truck will actually fit in the driveway of our small culdesac while packing.

The purging may help if we need to rent something small until we can find more permanent lodging.

So, if you are praying for moving prices to go down,

keep it up, please!

And could you also pray that when we are ready to sell things off,

that God would bring the right buyers with the right price.

Done!

 This has got to be a personal record for me.

There are those who complete all of their Christmas shopping in November,

but I am not that person.

I am the person who may just thrive on a little pressure.

But this year, with the promise of difficulty in shipping,

I promised hubby that I would finish early.

On top of that, I heard that my last possible day to ship is December 15.

And today, I finished the shopping.

Hubby will help me get the gifts together this weekend and then out they will go.

I am pleased with the outcome this year.

I did add a few decorations this week in amongst everything else,

but there is still a little more decorating to do as well.

We are enjoying the sights and sounds of the Christmas season,

I thing we may even be taking a walk tonight to see some of the neighborhood lights.

Back to the Schedule

 I do hope that you enjoyed the Thanksgiving holiday.

We had a lovely praise service on Tuesday night at church.

It was a small group, but everyone participated.

On Wednesday, I prepped food for Thursday.

Thursday, we had a lovely fellowship with our friends.

It was the loudest Thanksgiving that we have had in many years,

but we enjoyed the company ... and too much food.

Of course, all that food meant plenty of leftovers,

so on Friday and Saturday, we had a simple breakfast, leftovers, and then a simple supper.

I enjoyed having someone in the house all day with me for 4 days!

There is always a letdown after vacation with hubby,

but there is also much work waiting after taking some time off.

Our Thanksgiving did include our personal Turkey Trot.

We did our traditional walk/run in the morning and on the walk home enjoyed chatting with family.

We also walked after Thanksgiving dinner with our host family.

On Friday night, we dug out the Christmas decorations.

Only the tree is up, but I am thinking of some other trimmings.

I threw away some staples last year because they had just served their purpose,

but that does leave a hole ... and this year is not the year for purchasing new decorations.

In fact, even the Christmas tree is telling us that it does not want to move again - 

its wire limbs have folded in and out so many times that 3-4 broke off in setup this year.

Because we used a lot of leftovers last week,

I will make it through this week with more simple meals.

You will see some repeats from last week that we just didn't get to.

I should only have to walk to the store for fresh foods like salad greens, spinach, and bananas.

Using pantry items and not doing a large Walmart run will be a budget boost this week.

Menu Plan for the Week:

Sunday:  Power Bowls (no chicken)

Monday:  Leftover Pot Pie Soup

Tuesday:  Spanish Rice (Substitute black beans for ground meat)

Wednesday:  Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday:  Salmon Cakes 

Friday:  Green Salad and French Fries

Saturday:  Miners Minestrone 

(a mix my sister-in-law bought me when we delivered a car to her)

Just a Little Tip

 I would never tout myself as a great cook - 

but I do have a few recipes that get shared a lot.

One is Italian Pork:

It is simply a pork roast sprinkled with an Italian dressing seasoning mix and then slow cooked until it falls apart.

The other is simple guacamole:

One avocado, sprinkle of garlic salt, a splash of lime juice.

Long time readers will recall my post about wedding reception guacamole

and the task of getting 50 good avocados at one time.

Just about the time we left NC, a church member gave me this tip,

and I have used it many times.

It is more of a blessing as prices continue to rise on EVERYTHING!

No one wants to throw out an 80 cent avocado!

To prolong the life of an avocado ...

Ripen avocado on the counter, but watch carefully.

When it is ready to use (and you are not ready to use it)

wrap in tin foil and place in refrigerator.

I have gotten another week out of avocados by practicing this method.

Of course, you still have to be aware of what is happening on your counter so that you do not miss that window of opportunity.

I keep about 3 squares of tin foil for this purpose and reuse them as necessary.

The Gentle Rebuke

 This morning, I mentioned that yesterday had been a tough day.

We were flying high - very high - over the weekend.

We had planned a survey trip for hubby to our possible new location.

All systems go!

The church seems good (dare I say great), 

4 possible job locations within an hour of the church,

and the thoughts of finally purchasing a home.

This might even be our final move.

And then ...

I started researching moving truck prices!

Yes, that was the stinger - the derailer.

$10,000 to rent a truck between OR and TN?

Yet only $3,000 to take one from TN to OR?

Do you see the difficulty?

I actually went to a few sites thinking that the first one had a glitch in the online calculator.

It seems that we are not the only ones wanting to leave the liberal west coast.😀

The flesh immediately wanted to get mad,

to cry,

to ask why.

I am going through the Minor Prophets with my Sunday School Class.

I felt like the prophets.

Why was I being punished for moving to OR to do right?

I moved 3 years ago on Biblical principle

and truly believe that we are moving again in God's plan.

So why the hurdles?

(Should have just thought on Amos in which God promises not to forget works of any type - good or bad)

And then God, as He does, brought the gentle rebuke ... in the funniest ways.

We had bought 2 books that came recommended to us.

Neither one turned out to be what we expected, 

but we opened the book that we were reading together last night ...

This is the chapter title that greeted us ...

Trust God to Deliver in His Own Unique Way

And as we finished that chapter, the next chapter title screamed ...

View Your Current Crisis as a Faith Builder for the Future

And then, in the devotional book that I was reading,

I awoke this morning to this Proverb ...

If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small.

Proverbs 24:10

Yes, God, I get it.

Another reminder that Sandra is not in control.

Another reminder that I don't have to understand.

Another reminder to just rest.

Another reminder that His ways are not our ways.

And as I stand back,

I can see that maybe God wants me to hire a moving company for less than it would cost me to DIY

and thus give me a more comfortable drive across the country.

I can see that maybe God will keep asking me to trust and drop prices in the final hour.

I can see that He doesn't need my money or my wisdom.

I can see that I still have a long way to go in the area of trust and faith.

And one more gentle rebuke ...

Sandra, you are helping to plan a Praise Service for TONIGHT!

You are presenting Psalm 103 in song.

Bless the LORD, oh my soul, and forget not all his benefits.

He has always been faithful and will continue to be!

I don't know what may try to steal your joy today,

but listen to your gentle rebukes.

And if you can't hear yours ...

at least listen to the ones that God sent me.

Derailed

 Well, yesterday's food post was derailed.

I am sure that you have had those days ...

you know, the one where a piece of news just steals your strength.

It was one of those days.

I did finish the general weekly house cleaning,

finished some more account closings for the estate,

and got in my run for the day.

You probably know what the week will entail as far as meals,

but we are a little "lighter" in the early part of the week

knowing that the Thanksgiving "feast" will be a little out of our normal eating patterns, 

especially since our hostess is a great cook.

We will celebrate Thanksgiving with friends and split the work.

I have gluten-free stuffing, sweet potato casserole, veggie tray with dip, and pumpkin pie.

I may also take a cranberry Waldorf salad and some squash.

And for the rest of the week:

Sunday: Fried potatoes and peppers, eggs, avocado, and smoothie

Monday:  Vegan Pot Pie

Tuesday: Breakfast casserole and smoothie 

(church on Tuesday instead of Wednesday means breakfast night got moved for a lighter supper)

Wednesday: Power Bowls: Greens, toasted garbanzo beans, dried cranberries, and pistachios

Thursday: Thanksgiving Dinner

Friday: Make a Turkey at home

Saturday: Turkey Pot Pie Soup

Usually, I shop on Fridays ... but not this week,

so we will be creative for next week using what is in the house

or making a walk or two to town for fresh vegetables as necessary.

A Rarity

 A Saturday post is a rarity,

but hubby is working on an outline for a service on Tuesday

and I am waiting on some dough to rise (I hope).

I haven't made yeast bread in a long while - 

it is not quite the same when made gluten-free,

but I was reading to some children this week and the last chapter was on baking bread.

The description just put me in the mood for fresh bread.

And it will go well with the minestrone soup tonight if it turns out.

I missed a "thankful" post this week.

I am thankful for an after-dinner walk with hubby last night

and a walk of almost 1 1/2 hours this morning.

Walking is just such a life-giving activity to me.

Both mind and body benefit from the fresh air and exercise.

I usually find an excuse to walk to town at least twice a week by myself.

Sometimes the activities of the day do not allow for a long couples walk,

but this weekend was a little calmer and provided the window for it.

I am thankful for the longer Bible study time that the weekends afford.

There were no time restraints on our Bible reading and study this morning.

Daily Bible reading is the primary source of fuel for the week.

I am thankful for the children that come over once a week

as well as the children who will come to Sunday School tomorrow morning.

Teaching is another "life-giving" activity for me.

I enjoy the challenge of imparting knowledge,

of teaching character,

of supporting parents and teachers.

And I am thankful for a home to "work" in.

Homemaking and nutrition and health and ambiance all feed me as well.

There is such a challenge in finding ways to foster peace,

in finding recipes that build health and strength,

in living within my means.

There is such satisfaction in seeing the results of such efforts.

I hope that today, and everyday, 

you are doing things that encourage and strengthen you.

Just Do It

It is the end of a grey but rain-free Wednesday.

We have actually had  2 rain-free days in a row.

The break in the rain allowed me to more comfortably mow the lawn yesterday.

I also enjoyed a walk to town without the need for an umbrella.

Today I was able to clear out the email box which had filled up since our weekend away.

I have also done some research for our Thanksgiving and Christmas services.

It was a good day for more quiet work and more rest.

It was a day begging for a nap ...

BUT

I still had to do some exercise!

It was sheer determination that took me outside to make the most of the rain-free day

and get the heart rate up high and for a good amount of time.

Yes, I did have to make myself do it ...

and after one cycle of walking and running,

I had to make myself do cycle two ...

and then three ...

and then four ...

all the way to cycle eight.

There is a reason that discipline is called discipline.

It is hard to be a disciple.

hard to be a disciple of good eating

hard to be a disciple of  consistent exercise

hard to be a disciple of consistent sleep

hard to be a disciple of order

hard to be a disciple of faithful Bible reading and prayer

But it is the discipline that yields results.

If you are living the disciplined life ... 

the life of a disciple ...

keep it up!

If there is an area that is slipping,

Get back to it!

It will be worth it!

The Eyes of Man

 "Hell and destruction are never full; 

so the eyes of man are never satisfied."

Proverbs 27:20

As a teacher, I often see this truth lived out in my students.

When the birthday bag comes out, so does the "green monster."

Instantly, many children are planning what they will pick for their birthday.

I hear often, "I wish I had."

"You could get me that for Christmas."

But while I may mask my discontent and desire for more,

I see it in my own life as well.

With a pending move in the new year comes thoughts of a new home,

a new town,

a new neighborhood.,

and dreams ... lots of dreams.

And sometimes the dreams get out of control.

This morning I read a little devotional that began with Proverbs 17:1

"Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith,

than a house full of sacrifices with strife."

And I felt the gentle reminder that while it was ok to look and plan,

while it is definitely good to pray specifically,

while it is good to know the needs,

...

but it is also good to recognize discontent and greed.

And I remember that God has always provided over and above.

Quick Jaunt

 Home Again, Home Again ...

Hubby and I took a quick trip this weekend. 

We headed to the Tri-cities area of Washington state.

We were passing off the last vehicle in his mom's estate.

He kindly took us part of the way on Friday night

and we stayed at a lovely motel for the night.

The motel had a gourmet, beautiful, made-to-order, allergy friendly breakfast - 

including gluten-free toast, gluten-free granola, and even dairy-free yogurt!

Breakfast might have been the highlight of the trip!

God gave us safety and clear skies on Saturday 

and we were very glad the trip home was in the same car.

It is nice to have the driveway back and to be a one-car family again.

And now back to routine ... at least as much routine as we have.

I had Saturday off from cooking - 

Motel breakfast of Granola Parfait.

Lunch at Chipotle - Veggie Burrito Bowl

Dinner at Burgerville - Kids burger meal

It is nice to be back to homemade, healthier food.

And here is the plan for the week ...

Sunday - Mongolian Noodles loose interpretation - primarily use a bag of broccoli slaw for veggies

Monday - Mashed potato, Turkey gravy, Roasted Broccoli, Sliced Beets

Tuesday - Thai Tacos (again loose interpretation)

Wednesday - Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday - Chicken Picatta (extra broth instead of wine) and Peas

Friday - French Fry Fix with Chef Salad

Encourage

 Proverbs 31:26

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; 

and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

I am thinking again about the month of November.

- a month focused on giving thanks - 

- a month of recognizing blessings around us - 

Shouldn't this focus overflow into our relationships?

Shouldn't we verbalize our thankfulness to both God and others?

The Proverbs 31 woman knows how to speak.

She uses Godly wisdom to speak kindness and encouragement to others.

It is so easy to tear others down.

It is easy to let pride stop me from building up others.

It is easy to want to wait until I can merely reciprocate after receiving praise from others.

It is easy to just hold my tongue.

But why not be the first?

Use your mouth to encourage someone.

It is in acknowledging the good in others that we will change our attitudes.

It is in acknowledging the good in others that we will fill up the tank of others.

It is in acknowledging the good in others that you may just recognize the difficulties that they are facing today.

And while you are at it, speak kindly to yourself.

Remember that you are God's creation!

Looking for Ministry

 It is not always easy.

It is not always comfortable.

But change is inevitable.

Sometimes the process is simple,

and sometimes the process takes more work.

Growing up, we were in one church for at least 10 years.

Since I was young at that church, I could just grow into ministries.

I never really had that displaced feeling.

I served in the nursery when all other teen girls did.

I cleaned when I was asked.

I became part of the music ministry as my lessons progressed.

Changing churches can create a large hole ...

a need for a place to serve ...

In our married life, we have been in 8 churches and will make a change again soon.

There is always the need to wait, a season without the usual service.

There is a need to let people get to know you.

There is a need to know the pastor's plan and direction.

There is a need to observe and learn how things are done.

Sometimes that pastor is burdened to find a place for everyone,

but sometimes that does not happen.

The wait to serve has often led me to unique ministries.

The "wait" created this blog.

The "wait" created a card ministry.

The "wait" has created children's choirs.

The "wait" has stretched us out of the "typical" in order to meet specific needs.

We are no party planners - but if fellowship seems to be the need,

then I guess God can use us in that role.

I have found in 7 of the 8 churches that playing the piano was a need I could fill fairly quickly.

In more than half of the churches, a teacher was a need.

At some churches, we were able to build (once a shed, once a retaining wall).

I have painted walls in at least 2 churches.

Of course, the cleaning ministry is USUALLY available.

But sometimes,

especially in small churches,

positions are held by long time members who are content in those roles

and the search is harder.

It is hard to change the way I serve.

Where do I fit in?

I know God wants me to minister?

I mentioned yesterday that we were working on the church Praise Service.

It is one way that we can help to focus a busy day often focused on food and football.

It is a way to look around and to hopefully let other people serve who haven't found their place.

It is a way to include more than the usual servants.

It is a way to focus our own hearts on Praise and Thanksgiving when there is so much "gloom" around us.

We are also working on another Christmas Eve Service - 

It was such an encouragement to folks last year with the most common comment being that it just helped to slow the holiday down to take a breath on Christmas Eve.

This service is fun because it involves decorating and the challenge that that brings.

Right now, we are experimenting with some ideas around the house to be able to light the service without the harsh overhead lights😊

So if you stop by, please excuse random Command strips on the wall, mason jars in various stages of decorating, stray glitter and snow, and LED candles!

All ministry is fun, but ministry that we can do as a couple is even more fun!

It encompasses our love of music, 

hubby's ability to teach, 

and a love of the holidays.

It allows us to minister.

Maybe you are still looking for your place.

Don't be afraid to look outside of the box.

There is always, always, someone who needs you and your gifts.

And maybe you have "your" place...

is there someone you can share with,

is there someone you can work with,

is there a way you can encourage someone else ...

and sometimes that is the hardest ministry - 

because it involves relinquishing control and my own desires.

Coming Soon...

Only 2 1/2 Weeks left until Thanksgiving ...

For some reason, fall is just speeding by.

It is a fairly early Thanksgiving this year.

Our cool, damp weather is here and today is high in the mid-40s - 

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I spent a couple of hours at Costco while I waited on a tire installation.

It was busy with the hustle and bustle that a holiday can bring.

The holidays are also on our mind as hubby and I help plan a Praise Service for the church.

We worked on the order of service tonight,

We had hoped to be entertaining at least one family member for the holidays,

but work schedules did not permit him to make the 8-hour drive ...

... but just as we contemplated what to do for the day,

we received an invite to join a church family for dinner - 

and isn't that what God's family should do?

Without company, we will spend the rest of the weekend doing some visiting in town

and some decorating for the Christmas season.

Weekly Menu: 

Sunday: Grilled Veggie Sandwiches 

(toast spread with hummus and topped with sauteed onions and peppers)

(It is also good with a spreadable cheese - like Laughing Cow)

Monday: Singapore Noodles

(I even found some gluten-free brown rice and millet ramen noodles to use in the recipe)

Tuesday:  Cod (from brother-in-law in Alaska) with Green Bean Casserole

Wednesday:  Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday: Burrito Bowl (missed this last week)

Friday:  Putting our French Fry Fix on a Chef Salad

Remember and Appreciate

 Today is a day of remembrance.

Three years ago, we said goodbye.

It was one of those goodbyes that isn't suppose to occur.

We expected to bury hubby's father and mother in our lifetime,

but we didn't expect to say goodbye to a nephew.

Just a little boy ...

Every life can make a difference.

My mother-in-law taught me to give and give some more.

She taught me that sometimes small changes in my life can open doors of ministry.

She inspired me practically to clean more and to clean deeper.

Little Timmy taught us too, even in his very few years with us.

We learned to be more sensitive to those with special needs.

We learned a joy in just the simple events

and to rejoice in milestones that often are taken for granted.

He taught us to value life and health.

He taught us how to fight and fight hard for good things.

On our day of remembrance,

take time to be thankful.

Take time to value something in each life around you.

Don't just think of the appreciation,

convey it to that person.

Help and Accountability

 Today was a basic home workday.

There was no running around.

There were no unusual visits.

I was rested after recovering from my bad decision-making on Monday evening.

My week typically begins with a general home cleaning on Monday.

This would be linens, bathrooms, vacuuming, and dusting throughout.

Then on Tuesday and Wednesday, I work in 1 of 5 specific ZONES.

This week was zone 3 which is the bathrooms and guest room.

Cleaning in specific rooms involves wiping down walls and baseboards

and moving furniture to vacuum behind things.

It involves tidying drawers and closets and cabinets and bookshelves if applicable.

It might involve washing curtains (more like once a quarter) or pillows or changing air filters.

This plan comes from a phone app that I found a couple of years ago.

The app allows me to check off what I have done and to be reminded of things I have skipped.

There is no wondering when I last washed the shower curtain or changed the fish's water.

This plan was motivated by the desire to stay on top of things.

Everything gets addressed at least once every 5 weeks!

There is a hope that on moving day, 

any helpers (or even hubby) won't see something awful when the couch or bed is moved.

There is a hope that any spider webs in the corners will only be minor if ever discovered.

I am reminded on a schedule of things that need to be addressed.

This is a simple example of a system of help and accountability.

Think of how many systems God has put in place to also address issues in our life.

He has given us His Word.

His Word should be read daily to remind us of His desires and our need for Him.

He has given us His church.

A balanced church should challenge believers and help to put a finger on sin in our lives.

He has given us fellow believers.

We should be challenged by the actions and rebukes of believers around us.

Are you availing yourself of the help and accountability available to you today?

When You Know Better

 Well, chalk another one up to "I knew better."

I mentioned that hubby took a sick day yesterday.

Then he was sweet and wanted to have a little date that evening.

He loves a good coffee and I will join him for a tea of some sort.

But our coffee shop was out of my favorite tea ...

and there was the "Apple Crisp Macchiato."

There are nothing like the flavors of fall - apple, pumpkin spice -

and they all go perfectly with coffee.

Surely just this once in 3 months would be ok - 

decaf - coconut milk - only 2 pumps of syrup instead of 3 ...

but "no," I spent the evening tossing and turning and taking surveys until 12:30 am.

The little caffeine, especially in the evening, just didn't work.

...And I knew better.

While the coffee was phenomenal, it was not worth it!

Isn't that the way with many of our decisions?

We think that surely this once we won't face the consequences.

Sometimes there is grace and mercy - 

but is it worth it?

Why not just do right?

What decision are you mulling over today?

Are you trying to get away with something?

Is there something you know you should give up ... completely?

Stop stifling your good progress!

Just let it go!

Seasonal Bug

 Even with the healthiest of diets,

there is always a little struggle at the change of seasons.

Hubby is at home with me today -

not a full-blown illness, but just a need to rest and kick something chasing him.

He spent the day, mostly quiet

and working on stuff to do with his mom's estate.

And I stuck to the Monday cleaning schedule for the most part.

It was nice to have some company

and the extra push to work a little faster and a little harder.

It was nice to have some company for lunch on a cool fall day.

And he is feeling much better.

And though we may want to wonder why we still have to face this seasonal bug,

we remind ourselves that it used to catch him quicker

and last for 3 or more days at a time.

We are grateful for the improvement in immune function.

And what are we eating this week?

Sunday - leftover vegetable stew from Saturday

Monday - leftover vegetable stew from Saturday but add some kidney beans

Mashed potato, gravy, roasted broccoli, beets, and one small pork chop for hubby

Tuesday - Shrimp pesto

Wednesday - Breakfast for Dinner

Thursday - Burrito Bowls (rice, taco seasoned beans, sauteed onions and peppers, guacomole)

Friday - Make Fast Food at Home!

I am also trying some new muffin recipes.

Here is a new one sweetened only with fruit.

I did add some chocolate chips (just in case they weren't sweet enough).

Muffins are a staple when you want the easy-to-grab snack with some nutrition.

Hubby takes 2-3 daily for his snack at work

and they often serve as an after dinner snack (unless Cheerios wins out).

Don't Forget the Gift

 Psalm 100:4

Enter into His gates with thanksgiving,

and into His courts with praise:

Be thankful unto Him,

and bless His name.

As a church musician, 

we are entering into a busy season.

There is special music for Thanksgiving

and then without a break there are the anthems of Christmas.

Currently, I am working on both seasons with the church children

and two songs include music based on Psalm 100 for Thanksgiving.

Perhaps it is just me,

but I am intrigued with gates.

I am drawn in by secret gardens and courtyards.

There is something peaceful about a courtyard.

There is something inviting about a gate.

And the Lord invites us, commands us, to visit these places with thanksgiving and praise.

When I am invited to a home, I like to take a hostess gift - 

flowers, soap, candles, food treat.

And my host makes the gift easy.  

Just come with praise.

There is so much to be thankful for.

I mentioned earlier that I am so thankful for the break in the rain on Saturday for the picnic.

I am thankful for the hope that God gives when the way is dark.

I am thankful for the man that I get to serve and minister with.

I am thankful that he supports my ministries and strengths.

I am thankful for health and strength.

I am thankful for the sale of my MIL's truck today (and more room in the driveway).

I am thankful for a break in the rain to walk to town and to mow the lawn today.

Let Our Lives Be Full of Both 

Thanks and Giving

Don't Give Up

The jokes are plentiful ...

husband/wife, daughter-in-law/mother-in-law, in-laws in general.

I don't like the jokes.

I don't like the generalizations.

But perhaps you have seen your real life reflected in the jokes.

I have to say that I did not always have the best relationship with my MIL.

And I get it ... I really do.

I was so different.

Can you imagine a girl who had never hunted?

...had never even shot a gun?

...was not versed in camping?

and then wore a skirt for ALL activities?

Then she adopted strange dietary habits!

It just didn't make sense.

The chasm was wide.

And add to that that her son had changed.

After nearly 20 years, the suppositions became comical.

She thought that he made me walk everywhere.

She thought that I made him eat healthy.

In truth, I was the one who would prefer to walk anywhere

and he was the discipline I needed to properly care for my body with my meals.

We learned to get along.

And in the last days, I may have known more about her than almost anyone.

I became her companion and nurse.

Not only that, but I was changed.

I realized that there were things that I could change to be more relatable.

Jewelry and makeup and purses were important to her.

And they were not to me.

But in order to minister, I remembered to put a little blush on in the morning,

I learned to accessorize (and maybe even like it a bit),

I tried to vary my handbags.

It was my way of "becoming all things to all people."

All this to say,

I don't know what difficult relationship you face,

but there is hope.

Cling to a Biblical Principle.

For me it was our reason for moving to Oregon and helped in the hard days.

"If any will not care for his own, he is worse than an infidel."

So keep praying

and do what you can to keep the peace.

The resolution may be right around the corner.