A True Friend

Proverbs 28:23 

He that rebuketh a man afterwards shall find more favour 

than he that flattereth with the tongue.

This verse has really captured my attention for the past two weeks.

It seems contrary to my experience,

and yet I know that God's Word is true.

Does it not seem that often a rebuke causes division,

lost friendships,

more hurt?

"Afterwards"

I thought of two possibilities.

Perhaps the favour is later - the reward of God.

Perhaps the favour is in the eyes of others looking for

"iron sharpening iron" - 

someone who is not afraid of men's (or women's) faces.

Regardless of whether or not I can understand it,

it is true;

and you and I need to rebuke sin when it is necessary.

 a promise of favour ... afterwards.

Ooh, Fungus!

It seems odd to me,

but my hubby likes mushrooms.

Fungus - really?

I do cook with mushrooms occasionally, but not as often as he might like.

Last week, an e-meal came up that included bacon-mushroom balls.

The idea was a meatball with bacon and mushrooms sauteed in diced tomatoes.

I couldn't skip it knowing how hubby would enjoy it,

but ...

I could tweak it.

Gourmet hamburgers anyone?

I took a pound of ground beef.

Added crumbles of 5 cooked pieces of bacon.

Added 8 oz of finely diced mushrooms.

Added desired seasonings - I used Worcestershire sauce and Italian Seasoning.

Mixed together.

Shaped into 4 patties.

Grilled.

I don't like mushrooms,

but these burgers were phenomenal.

Steakhouse quality, I guarantee.

Don't Heat Up the House

It has actually been a fairly mild summer in NC.

We have had our bursts of heat,

but all in all - the breaks have kept it tolerable.

We do make an effort to save on cooling costs - 

one - the AC does not run between 7:30 am and 3:00 pm.

two - we try to grill as much as possible.

We have enjoyed the sweet corn immensely this year.

I pick up 4-8 ears on my shopping trip and we enjoy it once or twice until the next week.

In order to keep the house cool ... we grill it with our meat.

The other perk is that it is already buttered and doesn't make a mess at the table.

Take the husked corn.

Place on aluminum foil.

Dot with butter.

Season with garlic salt and Parmesan cheese (or your choice of spices)

Wrap tightly so butter won't ooze out.

Throw on grill.

Heat 12 minutes turning once halfway through.

I know - some of you have to cook so much meat that there is no room for grilled corn,

but for this family of 2 - it is a great option.

This week's menu:

Sunday:  Grilled Chicken and Corn / Fruit Salad

Monday: Tilapia, rice, and green salad

Tuesday: Chicken Kabobs and Rice

Wednesday: Taco Salad

Thursday: Breakfast for Dinner (Pancakes - I think)

Friday: Sausage Pasta

Saturday: Steakhouse Meatloaf

Grazing

I am a snacker ... a grazer ... a muncher ...

probably the biggest reason that I have to workout so much

and that I struggle with fluctuating weight.

I have changed my snacks greatly ...

more fruit, crackers, cheese ...

hopefully stuff with some nutritional value.

Less chips, candy, ...

While perusing a magazine this morning,

I saw a code for a free "Graze" box.

Healthy snacks.

I have no idea how big or small it will be,

but they did allow me to opt out of anything that had gluten, or dairy, or spicy ...

Would you like a free box.

Sign up using this code and get a free box - 

they will require a credit card for your "next" box - 

but if you are like me, you will opt out by that point.

They said that opt out was available online which is another plus.

If three people sign up with my code ...

I get another free box :)

Breath

I am just about finished with an autobiography.

It is a story about a woman who lived her life from age 11 in an "Iron Lung."

She was struck with polio in 1948 and lived until 2009.

I picked up the book because the author lived just down the street from where I sit.

She died just 7 months after we arrived in NC.

I pass her house each day on my walk.

The book has reminded me to be thankful for life

and for the automatic things that a healthy body does without one thought from me.

It also reminds me to enjoy each day that I have.

I am thankful for a body that is "fearfully and wonderfully made."

I am thankful for sustaining breath.

Tranquility

Isaiah 32:17-18

 And the work of righteousness shall be peace; 

and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever.

 And my people shall dwell in a peaceable habitation, 

and in sure dwellings, and in quiet resting places;

Thinking on this verse currently.

While speaking of the millennial kingdom,

I believe that the principal can apply today.

Practice righteous living ...

Get peace and quietness.

Who doesn't want a tranquil existence?

Follow God's plan and not your own.

Small Changes

I told you that I was looking for a different color for my garden table.

Something fun and bright.

I ended up with fun, bright ... and totally different from my norm.

Citrus Green anyone?

There was a small change made to the porch as well.

I wonder if any of my nieces and nephews can compare last Tuesday's porch picture

to this Tuesday's picture and find the difference.

Last Week

This Week

Maybe you saw it right away.



* The post caps were changed *
The small wood ones from Lowes warped and started to split -
now we have larger plastic ones -
unfortunately they are darker than the deck floor,
but at least they will protect the posts.

In the Kitchen

It is tomato time.

I am enjoying tomatoes at every meal and as a snack.

Alone, broiled, in salad ...

 Soon I will be canning them.

What crop are you enjoying right now?

This week's menu:

Sunday: Ginger Garlic Beef Roast

Monday: BBQ Pork Chops

Tuesday: Beef and Rice Casserole

Wednesday: Orange Chicken Salad

Thursday: Mushroom Bacon Balls

Friday:  Kabobs

Saturday:  Steakhouse Meatloaf

A Hug For My Feet

Today, I am thankful for my new workout shoes.

I bought hubby some workout clothes for his birthday;

and he bought both of us some new inside training shoes.

Hubby and I do a lot of interval training - 

strength training and cardio work in quick bursts.

 Our new minimal shoes feel so good and are easier to move in.

They weigh practically nothing

... like being barefoot, but with a little more protection.

Who can argue with the opportunity to feel like you are barefoot all the time :)

...and might I add ...

...they are really cute!

Not Always Easy

Proverbs 28:20 

A faithful man shall abound with blessings: 

but he that maketh haste to be rich shall not be innocent.

This verse reminds me of the Aesop's fable about the tortoise and the hare:

"Slow and Steady Wins the Race."

or perhaps Robert Frost's poem:

"I - I took the road less traveled by ..."

It is easy to be swayed by "the easy way."

Who hasn't contemplated the easier path?

the fast fix?

the miracle diet?

fast money?

The reward - the blessings - 

belong to the faithful.

Are you faithful in your work today?

Did you look for a way to bless your husband?

Is your "domain" clean?

Did you impart character to your children?

Are you tossed about today or a secure anchor in your home?

Be faithful - 

and wait for God's blessings

when and where He wants to bestow them.