Friday Forum: I Just Think Differently?

A move out of state requires an extensive church search usually.

Our situation was no different.

We have not tried the 3 closest places of worship.

We can see the Mormon building from our window,

across the street from them is the Seventh Day Adventist building,

and just 2-3 properties down is the Jehovah Witness Kingdom Hall.

But we have tried 5 churches in the area and are deciding on 2 of them.

When we began the search,

I told hubby that I would be wearing the same outfit every Sunday while we attended different churches.

Of course, he wondered, "Why?"

Do you know why?

I figured if I wore the same outfit each week,

then when we revisited a church, I would not have to remember what I had worn😄

Is it just me?

Is it a difference between men and women?

Would you do the same?

A No Brainer

On this Thankful Thursday,

it is not hard to choose something to be thankful.

I am thankful for America.

I am thankful for the freedoms that we still enjoy.

I am thankful that the founders could foresee many potential problems

and would seek to circumvent future difficulties.

I am thankful for the vast land and the variety of people in it.

I am thankful for the opportunity that I have had to spend time in many different parts of it.

I am thankful that there are still men and women who are sacrificing to maintain that freedom.

I am thankful for the families at home who are sacrificing time with their family

to help sustain the freedoms that I enjoy.

I am also thankful for the freedom that a relationship with Christ provides.

This nation is becoming a darker and darker place.

So many people are in bondage to sin,

in bondage to themselves,

in bondage.

Many even wear the chains on the outside

that match those on the inside.

I am glad that Christ has set me free from the power of sin.

No, I am not perfect,

but if I rely on His power,

I do not have to yield to the bondage of that sin.

I am thankful for extra time to spend with family today.

On that note,

the day began with a workout:

30 minutes of kickboxing and tabata, then 20 minutes of stretching.

Then a nice leisurely time of Bible study in the back yard without time restrictions of rushing to work.

A pleasant picnic-y lunch.

And then, a walk around our new town.

A walk of some 6 miles.

Don't worry, it was not without rewards.

At about mile 5,

a non-dairy "milk" shake.

Not just that, but fresh raspberry!

Wow!

It's A ....

...BOY!

Now that I have your attention.

Admit it ... I made you look.

We went to Petco today.

You see, our Betta, Romeo, was not going to be up to the cross country trip

and had to be left behind.

Today was the day to get a new Betta.

We arrived at Petco where we found that they sold Baby Bettas.

Not only are all Babies cute ...

but in this case, they are cheaper too.

So we got a Baby Betta and we will watch him grow.

When the Tables are Turned

What Fun!

We received Happy Mail today.

I have organized many packages to folks far from home,

but this time, we were on the receiving end.

Happy Mail / Housewarming fun from our church in NC.

Thank you to ALL involved ... and the proper written thanks will be on the way.

There were gluten-free treats,

cleaning products,

notes of love and encouragement,

gift cards,

a WOODWICK CANDLE (in my favorite apple scent),

and wall art (which is much appreciated since we have a lot of walls in the new place).

The encouragement is much appreciated!

The Heart of the Home

I actually feel like I am getting some heart back.

It seems like months (and maybe it has been) since I have REALLY done my job.

You know, the homemaker job.

I have been busy,

but it has been in packing, cleaning, cleaning, unpacking, painting.

Yesterday, I finally got some "fun" baking done.

I made hubby an apple pie on a cool rainy day.

There have also been pumpkin muffins and blueberry muffins this week.

I feel like I am getting back to myself.

There are still some "settling" jobs left,

but they are dwindling and that feels good.

And now our tour continues ...

the dining room and kitchen.

The space is much larger and has more storage than any place we have lived.

I do miss being part of the "action" while I am in the kitchen and others are in the living room,

There are always trade-offs.

I think this is the first actual dining room that we have had.

It has always been a corner of the living room or a corner of the kitchen.

This one is a dedicated space.

The short door in the corner is additional storage

currently holding vacuum, tray tables, and folding chairs.

The "odd" seat at the end of the table is also my file cabinet.

view from living room

View from stairs into the kitchen.

A little spoiled with all of the cabinets and a large window!

All the food fits in the pantry to the left of the fridge.

Starting the Tour

Curious about where we have landed?

I showed a little of the mountains to the east of us - our welcome to the Pacific NW.

It won't be too long before hubby has me to the coast - the unique PNW coast.

But where do we call home ... ?

Come in today and take a peek at the living room.

One thing that continues to take me back after over 10 years of trailer life

(including parents on both sides who live in mobile homes)

is the height of the ceiling.

It is not odd to many of you but does open the place up a lot.
The pictures are slow in coming because there was some paint work to be done.
This is not odd for me.
Out of 5 homes we have lived in ... I've had to paint 4 of them!

A first for us is the coat closet in the entryway.

It hasn't been a necessity, but it is a nice addition.

The view as you step into the house (a duplex/townhouse)

The fish tank is awaiting a new Betta.

Hubby's corner awaits the start of a new book!

And looking back at the front door (on left) and closet door (on right)

It finally felt like home when I got some plants hanging in my "office" again.

the view from the dining room - 

a few cards welcomed us when we arrive ...

you all know who you are (E.D., P.C., and J.S.)

And the plant at the window has LAVENDER - yes, this is the region that it grows happily.

Another view from the dining room.

We had to add some floor lamps because there is no overhead lighting and the rainy season will come.

In fact, the rain is moving in this evening.

The only other change is some pillow covers.

Small patio outside the sliding door.

Breaking and Entering

While the move across the country did go smoothly,

it was not without adventure.

On Thursday night, our last night in North Carolina,

after packing the truck and tidying all day,

we had plans to have dinner with friends.

As we left the house for the evening,

hubby looked at me and asked,

"do you have the keys?"

Oh NO!

We had taken extra keys off of our rings to give to the buyers.

We had removed the extra key from the storage shed.

...the keys sat on the counter.

The trailer was locked.

We were headed to dinner.

We enjoyed our evening

with just a tiny cloud over our party.

And when we got home after dark.

We had to break into our own home.

It is actually frightening that it only took us about 5 minutes.

And the trailer looked no worse for wear.

Never let it be said that this blog only paints the picture of a perfect life!

Pressed down, shaken together

A move always involves loss.

Change is never easy.

We were leaving the east coast where we were only a short drive from half of the family.

We were leaving a church we loved.

We were leaving ministries we loved.

We left friends that we loved.

We left a home that we loved.
We left the side of the nation that gets Macintosh apples.

One of the silly things that we "grieved" was the loss of Chick-fil-A.

Sure there is one in Portland, but that is over an hour away.

Chick-fil-A was our little bit of normal.

It was a place where we could get gluten-free fast food.

Before we had the kitchen up and running in Oregon,

we visited a regional fast food establishment about 1 and 1/2 miles from our new home.

BURGERVILLE

They have GOOD gluten-free buns, gluten-free burgers, fries ... the works.

We had again found a place where we could feel like we ate like everyone else.

So where is the pressed down, shaken together?

As we ordered,

I glanced at the milkshake menu.

Yes, this is a no-no for me, but I just wondered at their flavors.

And then I saw it ...

They offered "milk" shakes,

at no extra cost,

made with dairy-free ice cream!

Be still my beating heart.

We haven't had one, yet,

but the option is there.

"I Think I'll Move to Australia"

Everybody has one of those days ...

you know, like Alexander ...

 the little kid with the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.

Yes, I had one of those days last Tuesday.

Last Tuesday, I was on cloud 9.

I had ordered my new lawn mower.

My grass was begging to be cut.

I received word that UPS had delivered my mower.

I ran to the door, swung it open, and ...

no mower at the door.

My stomach sank.

Upon a very short research,

I realized that my recent Amazon order

which included my mower, a bed frame, a mattress, and new sheets

were all directed to our former home in North Carolina.

The mower had indeed been delivered,

but to someone else's home.

While this was going on,

I was working on cleaning a bathroom,

and suddenly I was without water.

Huh?

It appears that when I had arranged utilities,

I managed to forget the water.

It was closing time for the water department,

so I would have to wait until morning,

and then I would have to wait another day for reconnection!

It was a terrible, horrible, no good very bad day!

But in the midst of it all,

God provided and met our needs.

There are so many reasons to be THANKFUL!

My former neighbors graciously retrieved the mower.

Our dear friend/daughter/sister graciously took it to UPS for return.

We were able to stop all of the other deliveries and reorder or redirect each item.

We were able to use water from the hot water tank to flush the commodes over night.

I was able to contact the water department first thing in the morning.

The water department had the water on by 9:30 in the morning (and not the next day)!

So, I think, for now, that I will just stick with the move to Oregon!

First Impressions

As I mentioned earlier,

we rented our new home based on internet pictures

and a video walkthrough with the realtor.

So when we arrived,

there were some nerves.

Did we make a wise decision?

We visited our new home on Tuesday night June 4

after a 5 day drive across the country.

It was probably not the best time to view it, but ...

We walked in ... and ... the smell was not so great.

The carpets were still damp from being shampooed (that was good).

The walls were a very dingy beige and though they had been patched,

they had been patched with different color spackle and not repainted.

Our first impression was less than stellar.

While the place had space and potential,

it was showing the wear of many, many renters.

On moving day, we contacted the landlord.

We needed some problems documented that might affect our deposits.

Before she came over,

the previous tenants visited to check for left behind items

and to "assure" us that the walls would not be taken care of by the landlord.

When the landlord arrived,

hubby went to bat for me.

He showed the landlord the diseased walls.

He explained that we would do the work if she would provide the paint.

Her initial response was to suggest that we just cover the spots with artwork.

Hubby kept pushing and I showed up and explained that the speckled walls were not very homey.

And guess what?

She approved it!

They provided paint and threw in a refrigerator that we had agreed to purchase for $200 for my labor.

She also agreed to pay for materials to let hubby buy new screen to fix quite a few holey window screens

and to put a new lock on the door (since there were numerous keys floating around).

"Just cover the patches with artwork"

The beige color in the foreground and dove white behind.

Starting to feel like home.

The living room has now been painted and the change is amazing.

The walls are bright, clean, and the patches no longer show!

While I still have the dining room and kitchen to go ...

we now are encouraged, rather than discouraged, by the rental house.

We are also hoping that there is enough paint left over to freshen up 2 bathrooms!